No baby

I can totally understand women in their 30s and their desparate longing for a family. Al & I have everything we've ever dreamed of... except a child. We have now received post-secondary education, stable careers/jobs, good health, saved some money, have a new house, travelled to other countries...our lives are so full and so complete! There is only one thing missing. I think it's hard for goal oriented people who like to achieve and work hard to accept that pregnancy may just take a long time to happen or that the possibility of children is unknown. I like instant answers or at least to have a plan that I can work on to achieve my goals. Now, I feel so helpless not knowing if my last one big dream will ever come true. I know it will, but how & when I'm not sure. I'm starting to seriously consider adoption. I've been to Kazahkstan and even visited orphans there. The children look half asian and half white. I've always wanted to adopt, honestly, and maybe it's time to start looking into the matter more seriously.